Wednesday, May 24, 2017

Ask Alyssa: An Advice Column by Alyssa Jin

Dear Alyssa:

How do I get into my dream college?

-College Dreamer

Dear Dreamer:

College seems to be the focal point of a tremendous amount of stress and anxiety these days. This is completely understandable. Although I can’t really give you an exact answer that will, for sure, get you into your dream college, I can give you tips that might help out. 

Obviously, grades are a huge factor in this. Any college you look at is going to take into consideration how well you did and how you applied yourself throughout high school; some will be more critical than others. However, there are plenty of other things you can do to boost your chances of getting accepted to that dream school.

One thing that is super important when applying to college is having a well balanced resume. Colleges want to see that you were involved in your community and in your high school. They want to see that you volunteered your time to make a difference and that you were passionate and genuine about doing do. If you have the time, I would definitely suggest devoting some of it to a good cause because it can only help your chances.

Something else that may end up boosting your chances of getting accepted to your dream school is applying early. If you are 100% positive that you want to go to this particular college because it truly is your dream, then applying early decision is a smart idea for you. Your willingness to commit yourself to their school so far in advance will make you stand out for sure. If you aren’t sure enough about committing to an early decision application, then there is another option you may want to consider: early action. Early action is simply applying to the college at an earlier date than most applicants, and, in turn,  receiving an earlier decision from them. This is a very good option that will result in helping you figure things out sooner.

Again, I can’t give you one piece of advice that will surely get you into your dream college. All I can say is, continue to apply yourself, get involved, and work hard.  I wish you luck in your college process!
Yours Truly, 
Alyssa
Dear Alyssa:

I’m really anxious about all of my upcoming exams.  How do I juggle all of my school work and still stay sane?

-Feeling Swamped

Dear Swamped,

This time of year is filled with so many emotions due to a number of events and end of the year assessments. It can feel super exciting but, at the same time, very overwhelming. We have reached that time of year where school work and projects are due left and right. It’s also time to start studying for regents and upcoming final exams.  Factor in events such as prom, banquet and graduation, and it is no wonder you are feeling swamped!

Although it can be extremely difficult to juggle all of these things, try your best to not let the stress consume you.  Time management plays a huge role in this. Setting study times where you will focus on a certain subject is really helpful. Each day, set a time range that you can focus strictly on your school work with absolutely no distractions.  Put your phone away! Within a few days, it will become a routine. Although this is probably going to be your main focus for the next few weeks, don’t forget to make time for yourself. It’s so important to devote time in your day to relaxing or doing something that you enjoy.  This is how you will stay sane. 

All in all, this time of year is stressful, but you are not alone. It may not seem like it now, but this will actually help you later in life. You’ll learn the importance of time management and how to calm yourself down when you’re feeling overwhelmed like this. Good luck on your exams.  I know you will do well!
Yours Truly, 
Alyssa 

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